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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 6 Aug 2006 23:25
Vodka and Coke is upto her old games trying to give new WGS a hardtime...
Instead of looking at the problems being faced by a new WG V&C decided to hold her up for ridicule...
I actually think Enya had to confront the people attacking her so as to show she couldn't be walked all over...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
hockberg
Member
Gender: Male
Bhakta
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# Posted: 7 Aug 2006 00:38
I'm not sure what VnC reasons where for post the link at CC... From what I understand I would not say Enya was a newbie...
I also don't think Enya was being attacked... it was a punter writing a field report, now Enya may have felt she gave a good service, but like any other girl who gets a bad report must realize that it's the clients view on the meeting that counts when it comes to writing reviews... and not the wg's.
If the client, when he closes the door and says goodbye and thinks to himself, I really didn’t get what I was looking for… or that was a waste of money… then it’s his right ‘despite what the wg may feel’ for him to write the review as he saw it… It doesn’t matter if she can pull all the excuses out of her hat for why the booking went badly… at the end of the day, it was the customer who lost out..!
And I feel it was wrong for Enya to public and start to argue the point with her previous clients… if she had felt the field report was wrong she should have taken it up with the client and admin privately. All she has done now is lose more custom.
And this is maybe the main point of my post… FR are a waste of time and girls should stop asking for them or excepting them;
Reason one… if you have too many, guys don’t like it… (Believe me)
Reason two… Everyone sees an appointment differently (see above) they are seldom how both parties felt about the meeting.
Reason three… If you have one bad review… no matter how many good reviews will make up for it… because every guy will think, what if I’m the unlucky guy who gets that one bad time!
All in all it may have been the customers fault that he did not get a good meeting (by not telling Enya of any problems he may have) but at the end, it is Enya by her actions who will lose out…
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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 7 Aug 2006 01:01
The way I see it is that when someone has an agenda behind their FR and other join in to rub it in...then it is time to stand up for yourself... Now personally I think Enya could have done it without so much fuss... but I support her for saying what she felt and saying it to the man's face...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
hockberg
Member
Gender: Male
Bhakta
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# Posted: 7 Aug 2006 01:12
You may know better then i... but what agenda? He just wrote a FR on his experience...!
You may support her for saying it to his face, but what has he lost? what has she?
If i wrote a bad review about a wg i don't lose out (hey i the customer... i can go elsewhere..) It's the wg who will lose business! which is why she should have not gone public about it... she is always in a lose lose situation.
Which is why i think they a bad...
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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 7 Aug 2006 12:15
The writing of a rebuttal to any FR is an essential right to reply and as much as a client can write what they want... a WG should be able to write her reply.
I find it rather amusing that men expect to be able to write extreme FRs from their specific POV and expect them to be accepted as the "truth", well the truth is a lot more than just their experience so if the WG wants to give her experience of that event and is prepared to live with the consequences then she should do it...
What Enya has gained is the knowledge now in the public domain that anyone who wants to write an FR can expect to be held to account for it...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
hockberg
Member
Gender: Male
Bhakta
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# Posted: 7 Aug 2006 18:45
I’m not suggesting she doesn’t have the right to reply… However, I do disagree with way she has gone about it.
Now as I’ve said before I don’t know if there as an agenda, But I do feel that Enya had other reasons for posting in the way she has… and only she can answer that question.
But to suggest that she has ‘gained’ some sort of ‘warning’ to other clients who posts bad reviews about her service is silly, and more importantly unprofessional. That is like saying; “Please leave feed back about me and my service; But if it’s not a glowing one… I won't stand for it”, Because it will look bad on my portfolio..!
As I’ve said previously I’m not a great fan of FR’s, but if a wg is going to except them she must be aware that from time to time they may not all be good.
There are many reasons why an appointment may not have gone well, sometimes this is the fault of the client, sometimes it’s the fault of both parties and sometimes the fault of the wg… But whatever the reason I don’t feel its right for either party to make derogatory and personal remarks about the other.
But at the end of the day the result is the same… The client has not received the service that he had wished and paid for… and ultimately it’s the service provider who is responsible.
And as in this case (with the help of Xenia) all Enya has done it shown the online punting community that at times she can act in an unprofessional and irresponsible manner towards her clients and for this she will ultimately be the one who will lose out.
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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 8 Aug 2006 16:27
Enya speaks for herself...
Works for me...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
eric19322003
Member
Gender: N/A
Dikshita
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# Posted: 9 Aug 2006 11:14
I do not have a great experiance of using wg's but have over the past four years spent some time with three. I have never made a fr but my experiances were varied. The first wg was 25 or so and apart from being a wg had a partner. She was a nice enough girl and made me feel welcome, she was very professonal and kept her personal life seperate from her business life and made me feel the experiance was just another client. I accept that this is all a client should expect. I did visit her a number of times but I did not enjoy my time completely, I need to establish some murial feeling in a relationship.
The second wg was a 35 old Sike asian girl. She was very attractive, highly educated and professional with a spotlessly clean house. I felt that she had many personal hangups, I did visit her 3 times but the last visit was a disaster. When I called at her house I inadvertantly picked up some mud from the path to her front door, there was no door mat I unfortunately some dirt transfered onto her lounge carpet. This she spotted straightaway and proceeded to lay into me with her tounge. Not a good start! Her attitude during the sex that followed was very indiferent and the whole episode unpleasent. I accept that I was initially to blame but the mud was very minor and an accident for which I was profussely apoligetic at the time. That was the end of that relationship.
Now I have met Kama who I find very attractive, inteligent, indipendant and very professional. She is also very gentle and has allways made me feel most welcome.
Three very different wg's but if Kama is typcal of a Devidasi I think she is a good advert for her profession.
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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 9 Aug 2006 23:20
Thank you...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
pazza98
Member
Gender: N/A
Dikshita
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# Posted: 13 Sep 2006 13:12
Back to the original topic, a little bit late I know.
I've read frs, I may have written one once a long time ago. Recently I noticed a rebuttal, although it was used in a positive way, to respond to a report. So I now know it's possible for a wg to post a rebuttal. I think from what I've read here, that "Enya" should have posted a rebuttal to the review, if that's how she feels. But if she went public on a forum, to deny it, this only brings attention to the bad review she's recieved.
I don't feel that it's strictly speaking unprofessional, although I didn't read the post, there is no link here, but it doesn't appear to have been in her best interest to publicise her bad report.
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MArkIT
Member
Gender: Female
Dikshita
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# Posted: 1 Oct 2006 16:08
Quoting: Kama
Enya speaks for herself...
Works for me...
Doesn't work for me, but I said my piece then and on a couple of boards. It's over and done.
Enya is a feisty girl and I like that. I hate kittens and fluffies and people generally that can't or won't speak their mind. But I'm not a WG and don't run a "business" as WGs do so my style of doing stuff should not be hers IMO
There are other ways to deal with bad FRs than how she did, and continued to do. No one should roll over and put their legs in the air when attacked unjustly, but you get judged for how you defend yourself. I think did herself no favours in a business context.
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