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Chevalian
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Dikshita
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# Posted: 21 Dec 2006 02:00
I read (casually, the newspaper was left out) a so-called advice column today, about never asking your wife/girlfriend about their previous sexual experiences.
Not for the first time I found myself at odds with the supposed majority of men who (it claimed) still expect 'their woman' to either suffer amnesia or to have had at the most one or two previous lovers.
I know the spectre of AIDS haunts us all. But personally I was actually really turned on by a girlfriend's claim she'd had over seventy men, I even promised to get a T-shirt printed up with number 73 on it. Far from having a problem about it, I thought if she really enjoyed sex with me after all that experience it meant I must be doing OK.
I imagine friends and admirers of Kama must be in the same boat, but does anyone else admit to being turned on (and I mean hard-on under the table in a restaurant) by hearing your partner has so much previous sexual experience?
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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 21 Dec 2006 22:25
So much sexual experience ?
I am in my early 20s I was not sexually active until I was 19...
Most young women I know in steady relationships are having sex two or three times a day...
So if we were to count sexual acts versus "men" I am probably very inexperienced... 
I don't think experience is about how many times or how many men, but more about learning and building on meaningful encounters and expecting to learn from them...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
rauri
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Bhakta
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# Posted: 22 Dec 2006 09:48
I have found with most of the woman friends I have known, they don't really talk about sexual experiences with former partners, not with me anyway.
Maybe more with their girl mates?
They might be more inclined to tell me if a partner was brutal or a druggie or a drunk, that sort of thing.
But only after they have split up from that partner.
rauri |
Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 23 Dec 2006 10:44
I don't mind talking about what I do if there is some reason to talk about it, but personally I consider sexual matters to be private and personal to those people who were there at the time... so I don't intrude on their privacy by talking about them...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
BandR
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Bhakta
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# Posted: 24 Dec 2006 00:33
Personally I don't mind what my sexual partners do outside of the relationship that we share. That is equally true of both amateur and professional relationships.
I do expect my sexual partners to be responsible... and in that regard I find that professionals tend to be more conscientious... but I truly don't mind.
I have been tested and I find that I have no sexual jealousy.
B&R
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I believe that Sex with Kama draws me closer to her gods. |
Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 24 Dec 2006 12:34
I have never been sure why anyone would be jealous about sex, I can understand when people commit to a monogamous relationship why they would like their affection to be special and unique for one another, but sex doesn't have to be part of that...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
Cuni
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Gender: Male
Bhakta
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# Posted: 24 Dec 2006 14:14
I don't ask they don't tell, so there are no lies or worries
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Chevalian
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Gender: Male
Dikshita
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# Posted: 27 Dec 2006 02:10
I agree its not a 'scoreboard' kind of thing. I think the conversation had begun on the issue of sexual jealousy and I had been saying I never felt any, so Kerry had told me how many lovers she'd had to test my reaction. I hadnt asked. What disturbed me was not the number (as I said - it was strangely arousing) but her claim that she could remember all of them by name. Maybe she was just playing mindgames with me.
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Cuni
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Gender: Male
Bhakta
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# Posted: 28 Dec 2006 12:37
All of their names !
how does anyone remember 73 names or did she keep a sock or something with a name tag in it. You should search her drawers. 
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thinking man
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Gender: Male
Dikshita
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# Posted: 6 Jan 2007 17:59
Quoting: Chevalian I imagine friends and admirers of Kama must be in the same boat, but does anyone else admit to being turned on (and I mean hard-on under the table in a restaurant) by hearing your partner has so much previous sexual experience?
Yes, indeed, at the thought both of my partner having other experiences, and at the thought of the experience that escorts have had. Not all escorts, it must be said: just a very small number of people (like Kama) whom I count as very special. In both cases, what arouses me is the willingness to discuss sexual matters openly and with - as it were- genuine curiosity.
In the case of Kama and her colleagues, I am also fascinated - and very turned on - by the fact that they have decided (of their own free will) to begin escorting. In Kama's case, as she says above, at the age of 19. We men are extraordinarily lucky that such people exist, and I am grateful!
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Kama
Devadasi
Gender: Female
Rishi
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2007 19:56
I really am amazed how many young woman just drift into sexual behaviour and are happy to do whatever the general society currently endorses as reasonable sexual behaviour.
Once I became sexually active I really spent a lot of time examing the nexus between the obvious pleasure I got from sex but also what was the "legitimacy" of the relationships I was in... and to be honest I preferred to have paid sex because I could see in such relationships a means to enjoy sex but to also have my skills and time appreciated and valued.
I enjoy most of the paid sex encounters I have and I don't have a paid sex unpaid sex emotional divide because I enjoy being with the men who visit me. I also enjoy the sex...
I wonder if many of the young women I am in Uni with could say the same thing about the various relationships they have experienced...
I believe Sex with Men is Divine and draws me closer to my Gods. Kama's website |
thinking man
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Dikshita
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2007 23:04
It is precisely the combination of intelligence, of actually enjoying sex, and being good at it, and of making the conscious decision to become an escort, that I find so delightfull and fascinating in Kama - that and the fact that she is absolutely stunningly gorgeous! I have come across it in just one other person, another young lady who happens also to be a highly intelligent student, and who really enjoys her escorting work, and the variety and number of men that she meets through it.
When I have a little more time, I will return to the topic in a bit more depth, but for now I just want to say again, as I said above, that we are very lucky that such people exist.
T.M
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Cuni
Member
Gender: Male
Bhakta
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# Posted: 14 Jan 2007 15:16
I don't mind what women do, as long as they are doing it to me
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